No matter how sad or bad

No matter how sad or bad things feel and appear, if you wish to move from it, find a good feeling, no matter how small, and give it your full attention.  That's how change happens.

What appears

What appears is the result of PAST thoughts, feelings and actions.  Your current thoughts, feelings and actions create FUTURE appearances.

You will experience

You will experience what you *agree* to experience whether you like it or not.

Why wait for others

Why wait for others to agree with you?  Focus on whether you agree with yourself.  You're the one who's accountable in the end.

You have the choice

You have the choice of having fun now or having pain now. Is it that hard to choose which?

Drop the painful threads

Drop the painful, angry, guilty threads that connect you with someone else.  With only one person hold the thread, the lines of painful connection are broken.

Be very careful with words

Be very careful with words, not just the spoken ones but the ones that make up your thoughts.  Choose the words that free, uplift and empower you.

What is confidence?

What is confidence?  It is knowing that you are free to play and have fun!

Don't just ask Why?

Don't just ask Why?  Remember to also ask 'Why Not?'

Sit in the soft glow

Sit in the soft glow of a candle or the late afternoon light.  Your soul loves it!

Don't settle for less

Don't settle for less!  Don't compromise!  Explore the field of infinite possibilities and choose freely!

See also:  Are you Choosing Freely or being Governed by the Given?

Observe

Observe without judging.

Allow strangers

Allow strangers to surprise you.  But especially allow those you know to surprise you by looking at them with an unassuming heart and mind.

Assume as little

Assume as little as possible.  It's makes life so much more interesting and accessible :)

Learn how to refocus

Learn how to refocus.  It helps you shift from whats undesirable to what's desirable.

Does focusing on the half-full glass

Does focusing on the half-full glass make the half-empty glass disappear?  It sure does!

Dream big

Dream big because you are, by nature, beyond big!

Stop waiting

Stop waiting. It shuts out all the beauty, abundance and joy available to you right here and now!

Blow raspberries

Blow raspberries.  It'll keep you young :)

Never criticize yourself

Never criticize yourself.  Instead, remind yourself that you have more useful things to do, like imagining how you would prefer to see yourself.  Now that's a marvelous step forward!

Check it out

Check it out - your life's on offer.

You don't have to

You don't have to get angry to show you care about someone's misfortune. 

When you're fighting

When you're fighting, what is your energy going into?

Think a new thought

Think a new thought everyday.

Enjoy

Enjoy without attachment.  Accept without aversion.  This is how you remain happy.

Don't sentence yourself

Don't sentence yourself to the prison of unchangeable beliefs.

Live your life

Live your life the way you want it to be remembered.

The judging mind

The judging mind is never a peaceful mind.